November 25, 2007 Bye Bye BFF

Me: I don't want to make a big deal out of this but we can't be friends anymore. I can't take you toxic behavior & lies. Please give my keys back.

Him: They are your keys so I will make sure you get them back. But how is my behavior the toxic behavior out of you and I?

Me: I knew you would start attacking me. That's why I said I didn't want to make a big deal out of it. I have nothing to say to you. If you don't know why then think real hard about all the nasty things you said behind my back all weekend.

Him: Other than complaining about the fact that you are constantly pissed at me lately. I got nothing.
Him: I'm not yelling at you or attacking you ut why are s many of your closest friends and people pissed at you?

Me: Again, I have nothing to say to you.

Him: I had a whole discussion with you last week and you can't answer one question?

Me: When your questions is an attack on me, no. Do you really think I don't know what you did? You're just going to keep lying & maneuvering to try to put the blame on me? You are a lying & conniving self-centered egomaniac and I don't want you in my life."

Him: So put the blame on me? Everything wrong in your relationships is my fault?

Me: Maneuvering again. I haven't said anything about my behavior one way or the other. I'm not talking about any of my relationships except you and what you did. (A topic which you are conveneintly avoiding.) If you're not going to own up to what you did & the lies you told then I would appreciate you leaving me alone.

Him: Can you cite to me what I lied about?

Me: Instead of owning up to your lies, you're asking me to tell you whice ones I know about so you don't accidentally admit to one I haven't heard yet. You are such a child. You lie all the time Chris. You lied about having your powerpoint ready for the district conference! I'm not putting up with you anymore! Grow up or leave me alone!!!

Him: I can not think of anything. I'm thinking hard. I got nothing.

Me: Then, as I said, you can leave me alone.

Him: I can not really think of anything. Not being two years old or anything. I go nothing on this one.
Him: When is a time you will not be home so I can stop by and grab the stuff I left at your house?

Me: No offense but I really don't want you in my home alone.

Him: 1. I take a huge offense to that, considering you have no reason not to trust me in your home. 2. When can I meet you to get my things?

Me: Tonight at 10 or next week.
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Me: So...when? I'd rather you not just show up unannounced.

Him: Next week will do. I don't know what is garnering me this hostilities but I guess whatever you say. The only thing i have been able to come up with all day is breakfast, where i had made it a point not to invite you because the large majority of my chapter does not want your company. I told you otherwise in an attempt to save your feelings. I had not felt to bad though considering you did not want to hang out with me and my people because you did not like the way i (supposedly) act around them. It wasn't a malice based decision so I'm not sure why you are so pissed. Again, i ask you to take notice of which friends of yours you are not pissed at? And your refusal to talk to me about all of this boggles my mind. I feel like no matter what i did right on this trip i was always a douche bag for something. And you never tell me when you thought i was a douche, you would tell my co-worker.

Me: Aside from all my feelings, I really don't understand why you even care. Why do you want to be friends with a bitch? Furthermore, I have no idea why you're dragging Kevin or anyone else into this.

Him: Cause you're not alway a bitch.

Me: Well you bring out the bitch in me.

Him: And so does everyone else recently. :\

Me: And now you are being an ass. And the everyone else you are referring to are a group of people you influence. That and two people who were way out of line that you also spent a great deal of time attempting to influence. One of who I barely associated with beforehand. Not exactly a close friend. So the only two people that I was supposedly close with are a liar and a traitor. You really ought to be more careful of who's around when you shoot yor mouth off.


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After a very similar conversation with my Best Girl Friend (BGF), I wrote the two of them an e-mail.